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2 years ago, our oldest son graduated from High School.  Our boys go to a small school a ferry and 3 bus rides away.  (A 1 hour journey each morning and afternoon.)   Obviously, he was our first son to graduate, and we were {blissfully?} unaware of the big production that graduation is around here.  Somehow, living a ferry ride away had kept us completely “out of the loop” of the whole hoop-la of graduation events.

I was absolutely blown away on Brad’s graduation day.  The boys were in tuxes.  The girls were in dresses that cost more than my wedding gown.  The school gym didn’t look like a place for basketball and sports.  Instead, it was completely transformed into a breath-taking beach scene.  I gasped out loud when I saw it.

…And was completely embarrassed that I hadn’t understood enough of what was happening to be a bigger help!

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This Saturday, son #2 graduates.  I was no longer blissfully naive of what was ahead.  So, this time, I wanted to be a better help.

Yesterday was the first day of decorating.  This time, I wanted to be a help.  Many of the other parents involved in this whole process are seasoned pros.  All of this was their doing – not mine!  I felt privileged to be part of the process and thought you might like to see it, too.

The first step, I was told, was putting up The Net.  When we arrived in the morning, lying neatly on the floor was a net approximately the same dimension as the ceiling of the main room space.

gym before

You can see in the back of that picture some strings of white lights that were being tested to make sure they worked.  Then the fun began.

stringing lights

  The parents carefully laid the lights out in an s pattern until the net was filled with lights.

lights on the net

Then we fiddled and fussed to figure out why some of them would randomly go off.

Once all the lights were finally working, the tricky part began.  A center pulley was earlier installed in the very center of the highest peak of the gym to help specifically with this.  Once we were able to get it down, it was attached to the center of the net.

center pulley

Now’s when I failed in the picture department. You’ll just have to imagine the “hoisting up of The Net” on your own.  It involved rope, ladders, and men willing to climb them.

The net was tied up by ropes at each corner first, then the sides, and then the pulley pulled up the middle.

The whole process took about 6 hours.  Last night, my opinion would have been that it was a way too complicated process to justify all that time, energy, and tall ladders.  And, then, today, we shut out the main lights and plugged in the lights:

lights up

I take it back.  Perhaps it’s worth it after all!  There is not one ounce of “school gym” atmosphere once those lights started twinkling overhead.

So, if you have the time and energy and men willing to climb ladders, it’s an awesome idea.  {I won’t be volunteering for the ladder part!!}

Now, can any of you guess the theme the graduating class chose for their banquet??  There’s a few big hints in this picture.

I’ll be back tomorrow to share some more details…

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Friends

June 18, 2013

Back in Jr. High days, I remember having to do an assignment on poetry, memorization, and recitation.  I chose this little ditty:

Make new friends

But keep the old.

One is silver,

but the other gold.

Silver and gold friends.  Old and new ones.  Both are precious gifts.

Last week I spent a delightful 5 days with a friend in Alberta.  I guess she would be categorized in the “gold” department of my friend list since I’ve known her for over 20 years.  She came to the camp where we live and work, and for the first few years, we were her leaders.  But, as time went by, the years that separate us in age have melted away and I now find myself learning from her!

She’s the friend that gave me the gift of my very first fluffy-white-bathrobe-at-the-spa day.  It was also her encouraging words and excited spirit that gave me courage to tackle cooking in the woods for 50 teenagers! (You can read about that here and here.)

I love friendships that just pick up where they left off, even if miles and months separate times when we can actually visit face to face.  It takes exactly one big ol’ hug around the neck and a fraction of a second for us to dive right back into the groove of conversation.  I love that.

We’re just about to enter into the crazy busy season of life here at camp.  Having a few days away was the perfect pre-summer holiday for me.  I loved getting to be a part of her family with 4 little darlins’ for a few days.  I read in the living room while listening to the most beautiful cello and violin practice going on…and got to be a part of school drop offs and pick ups, an amazing jazz concert (Kirsten was the lead singer), and all the other chauffeuring that takes place in a busy little family’s life.

We also had lots of great conversations over hazelnut coffee and saw some beautiful parts of Edmonton (Alberta) that I’d never been to before ~ including some amazing restaurants and shops.

Of course, in all the fun, I forgot to take any pictures, so her 5 year old son snapped this for us right before I headed to the plane to come home.

me and kirsten

What that pictures doesn’t show is how windy it was at that moment.  I’m told that just a few hours later a tornado blew through the area!

It was during my time with Kirsten that I also met a new friend…

and decided to start a whole new adventure.

That’s a story for another day!Winking smile

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On Parenting…and Letting Go

June 17, 2013

I try desperately in my day to day life to look for things to be thankful for ~  to look for the positives in situations.  When given the choice to laugh or cry, I almost always choose laughter. But, there are a few things that are difficult for me to process.  Like my Mom’s dementia.  [...]

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The {Grand} Tour of the New Entryway!

June 10, 2013

I’ve been giving you sneak peeks of the Entryway project I’ve been working on.  One of the things I love about blogging is the incentive it gives to actually finish projects.  It seems like I can fuss and fiddle and start projects galore.  But, at what point is something finished and it’s time to move [...]

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Friday Favs

June 7, 2013

Happy Friday!  You know how I like to pass on my recommendations of my favorite things, so here are a few of my favorite online discoveries this week.  Feel free to let me know what some of yours are, too! 1.Favorite New (to me) Blog The Painted Parsonage   2.  Favorite DIY Project I want [...]

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Summer House Tour

June 5, 2013

I’ve been inspired this week by Gina’s Summer House tour series.  I got to thinking how great it would be if I could actually have you all over for a visit…in real life!  Oh, what fun that would be… But, since that’s a little improbable, I thought – instead – to pretend you were coming, [...]

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Painting Stripes on Walls

June 5, 2013

One of the things I love about blogging is that it gives me incentive to finish projects.  Sometimes I get going so willy nilly in a hundred directions, that I find I have half finished projects all over the place. Once I got the Entryway gallery wall finished, I wanted to tackle the whole entryway [...]

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As For Me and My House Sign

June 4, 2013

The past few days, I’ve shown you 6 different wall art projects I used in our Entryway Gallery Wall. 1.Light Reflector Arrow Sign  2. Striped & Layered Photo Frame  3.Beach Cottage {faux} Photo Frames  4.Monogram Family Letter Sign  5.Pattern Play Display Frame  6.Ikea’s Mirrors Go Coastal Fun! I’ve saved my personal favorite for last… I [...]

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Ikea Mirrors Go Coastal!

June 3, 2013

I think Ikea’s little mirrors with the wide wooden frames are a great invention.  I used one earlier when I made a Beach Rock Mosaic Mirror. I had a few more lying around the house that I had purchased months ago at a thrift store.  I needed a few more things to fill up some [...]

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Pattern Play Display Sign

May 31, 2013

I wanted to make a sign with a fun pattern.  But, I wasn’t real wild about trying to hand paint some fancy scroll work.  I did remember, however, that I had a stamp set that I loved with just the design I was going for… So, I took a deep breath and ventured into even [...]

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