How to Clean a Diamond Ring & Other Fine Jewelry Questions Answered by a Jeweler

Episode 17: Show notes

Join me as we delve into the sparkly world of fine jewelry with Kimberley – a third generation jeweler. We’ll touch on topics such as selecting fine jewelry, cleaning & care of our diamond rings, and asking the right questions when choosing the perfect engagement ring. Get ready to learn from the wisdom gained from many years of experience. So, sit back, relax, and let the sparkle of this before Christmas episode add an extra twinkle to your day.

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Let’s talk about sparkly jewelry!

With Christmas not too far away, this podcast episode dives into the sparkly world of fine jewelry. Joining me is a dear friend and third-generation jeweler, Kimberly, who has years of experience working in her family’s jewelry store. We’ll explore the art of choosing the perfect gift, caring for cherished jewelry, and even selecting the perfect engagement ring. So, whether you’re cozied up by the fire or daydreaming of a white Christmas, join us for a lighthearted conversation filled with joy, laughter, and a lots of sparkle. Hello, Kimberly, and welcome to the podcast!

Click PLAY above to hear our conversation, or read the highlights (and helpful, practical fine jewelry tips) below…

The Heartfelt Difference: Small Family-Owned Jewelry Stores vs. Big Chain Retailers

When it comes to purchasing jewelry, the choice between a small family-owned store and a big chain jewelry store goes beyond the glittering displays. In this segment of our podcast, Kimberley, a seasoned jeweler, sheds light on the differences that set these two types of stores apart.

Catering to the Community

Kimberley emphasizes a crucial aspect that defines small family-owned stores—their close connection to their local community. Unlike chain stores that follow a standardized approach, small-town jewelers often engage in personal buying, tailoring their inventory to meet the unique preferences of the local demographic. For Kimberley, this personal touch is a hallmark of success for small-town jewelers. The commitment is not merely professional; it’s personal, as their names are intricately woven into the fabric of the community.

“Your name is on the line. You’re part of the community, and you want to make sure that what you sell to your neighbors and friends is of the highest quality,” Kimberley shares.

Quality Over Quantity

Drawing a comparison between big box stores and fast fashion, Kimberley encourages jewelry enthusiasts to seek out the quality and craftsmanship offered by small jewelers. While chain stores may be suitable for quick purchases, Kimberley contends that those seeking exceptional quality and personalized attention should check out the options of a smaller jewelry store.

“If you want really good quality jewelry, you’re better off spending some time with a small jeweler,” she asserts.

Personalized Service

One-on-one assistance and care provided by small family-owned stores can be incredible. The absence of commission-based pressure ensures that customers receive genuine advice and can take the time they need to make decisions.

“You often can’t get the kind of help and care in a big massive chain store that you can get in a smaller store,”

A Unique Approach to Customer Care

Kimberley underlines a distinctive aspect of their small family-owned store: a commitment to a non-commissioned sales environment. This choice ensures that customers are not rushed into decisions, fostering an environment where their needs and preferences take precedence over sales targets.

“We always wanted that continuity of care. We did not want you to feel like you had to make a decision right now because it’s a big deal,” explains Kimberley.

How do you take care of and clean a diamond ring?: A Guide to Fine Jewelry Care and Cleaning

To maintain the beauty and luster of fine jewelry, proper care is essential. In this section of the podcast, we delve into the practical tips shared by Kimberley, a seasoned jeweler, on how to care for and clean your fine jewelry.

1. Do not wear fine jewelry 24/7 (all the time!)

  • Take it Off: Kimberley emphasizes the importance of not wearing jewelry all the time. Even historical figures like the pharaohs and contemporary royalty don’t keep their jewelry on night and day.
  • Bedtime and Beyond: Remove jewelry before bedtime to prevent claws from rubbing against pillows. Avoid wearing gold and diamond rings and chains in the shower to prevent soap residue buildup.
  • Safe Storage: Invest in ring holders and establish a designated spot to avoid misplacement. Thrift stores often carry these holders, making them an affordable and practical solution.

2.The Ferrari Analogy: Understanding the Value of Care

  • A Lesson from Luxury: Kimberley’s analogy comparing jewelry care to a Ferrari emphasizes that the price of an item doesn’t dictate how it should be treated. Spending a fortune on a piece doesn’t mean it can withstand continuous wear and tear. “You don’t buy a ferrari and then take it off roading just because it was expensive!”
  • Wash, Rinse, Repeat: Rita Joy shares her personal revelation from Kimberley’s analogy, leading her to adopt a habit of removing her diamond ring during activities like washing dishes, showering, and sleeping.

3.White Gold Care: Rhodium Plating and Maintenance

  • Unique Needs of White Gold: Kimberley highlights the intricacies of caring for white gold, which often comes with rhodium plating. The plating wears off over time, especially with exposure to soaps and cleaners. It will require periodic rhodium plating for upkeep.
  • Periodic Maintenance: Recommends periodic visits to a jeweler for deep cleaning and checking the condition of claws.

4. How to Clean a Diamond Ring at Home

  • Avoid using toothpaste, which can leave a gummy residue and can scratch the gold.
  • Opt for a soft toothbrush with water and a little hydrogen peroxide for a good at-home cleaning solution.
  • Look for special formulated solutions for your specific type of fine jewelry. Here is a list of recommended fine jewelry cleaning products. -affiliate links

5.Delicate Care Tips for Pearls

  • Special Treatment for Pearls: Kimberley introduces the delicate care routine for pearls, emphasizing their unique composition and sensitivity.
  • Pearl Cleaner: Recommends using a super mild soap or a specialized pearl cleaner, such as Haggerty’s..
  • Avoiding Exposures: Pearls should be shielded from perfumes, soaps, and other chemicals. They should be the last item put on and the first taken off, protecting them from potential damage.

Tips for Choosing Fine Jewelry Gifts for Loved Ones

Selecting the perfect piece of fine jewelry for a loved one can be both exciting and challenging. In this section of the podcast Kimberley shares her insights on how to assist customers in finding the ideal gift. Let’s explore the art of choosing fine jewelry that resonates with personal style and sentiment.

Navigating the World of Fine Jewelry Gifts

When it comes to selecting fine jewelry for special occasions like Christmas, the process involves understanding the customer’s preferences, budget, and the unique personality of the recipient.

Budget and Beyond: Guiding Based on Price Points

  • Reading the Customer: Kimberley emphasizes the importance of being a people person in the retail business. By keenly observing customers and engaging in conversation, she could gauge their preferences and budget without making it the sole focus.
  • Price Transparency: The store adopted a transparent approach by displaying prices on everything. This allowed customers to self-guide their choices, ensuring they stayed within their comfort zone.

Unveiling the Classics: Timeless Pieces for Every Taste

  • Diamond Stud Earrings: A classic choice that transcends trends, diamond stud earrings are versatile and suit various occasions. Kimberley highlights their timeless appeal as a safe yet elegant gift option.
  • Pearl Earrings: Another timeless classic, pearl earrings exude sophistication and simplicity. They are a safe bet for those who appreciate traditional elegance.
  • Hoop Earrings: Kimberley suggests hoop earrings as a versatile and stylish option. However, the choice between big or small hoops depends on personal taste, making them a great gift for those who enjoy variety.

The Art of Questioning: Unearthing Hints and Preferences

  • Understanding Existing Collection: Asking customers about their existing jewelry collection can provide valuable insights. Knowing what they already have can guide the selection process and ensure the chosen piece complements their style.
  • Hints and Trends: Kimberley would inquire if the customer had dropped any hints or if they were looking for something trendy. Balancing classic choices with current trends allowed for a diverse range of options.

Navigating the Journey to the Perfect Engagement Ring

Choosing an engagement ring is a significant and memorable step in one’s life. Here are some insights and expert advice on the process of selecting the perfect engagement ring. Let’s dive into the essential questions and considerations that arise in this exciting journey.

Initiating the Search: Where to Begin

Questions for Aspiring Engagement Ring Buyers:

  1. Pinterest Board as a Guide: Kimberley suggests asking if the buyer has a Pinterest board (or picture images), providing a visual representation of the recipient’s style preferences.
  2. Understanding Individual Preferences: In cases where a Pinterest board isn’t available, starting with the individual’s likes and preferences can be a good foundation.
  3. Exploring Couple Dynamics: Many couples come in with shared ideas or hints exchanged. Understanding a few key elements can narrow down options effectively.

Key Considerations When Choosing an Engagement Ring

Ensuring Durability and Quality:

  1. Workhorse of the Jewelry Wardrobe: Kimberley refers to an engagement ring as the “workhorse” of all your jewelry due to its constant wear. The ring should be crafted with durability in mind.
  2. Quality of Craftsmanship: Inspecting the craftsmanship is crucial. Claws should be robust, avoiding thin, delicate structures that may wear out over time.
  3. Focus on Workmanship: The bottom of the ring, where wear and tear are most significant, should have ample material. Ensuring the piece can withstand daily activities is imperative.
  4. Caution with Focal Points: Certain gemstones, such as pearls, opals, morganite, and emeralds, are too soft and prone to damage. Kimberley strongly advises against using them as focal points for engagement rings.

Choosing the Right Metal: Gold, Platinum, or Palladium?

Deciphering the Metal Choices:

  1. Gold Options: Yellow gold and rose gold require less maintenance, maintaining their color over time. White gold needs rhodium plating, while palladium is often mixed with gold for a pleasing white metal appearance.
  2. Platinum Purity: Platinum, known for its purity, is a durable choice that doesn’t require additional maintenance.
  3. Silver is not a good option for an engagment ring.

Finding the Perfect Ring Size

Navigating the Tricky Terrain of Ring Sizing:

  1. Ideal Sizing Conditions: Kimberley suggests measuring ring size on mild days, as extremes in temperature can affect how rings fit, and the exact finger it will be worn on needs to be sized.
  2. Seasonal Considerations: Rings may feel snug in summer and loose in winter due to temperature-induced finger size changes.
  3. Professional Sizing: Consulting a jeweler is crucial, as they use different sizers based on the width of the band.

Choosing an engagement ring involves a blend of personal style, durability, and craftsmanship. Kimberley’s expertise provides a roadmap for navigating the intricate choices, ensuring that the chosen ring not only symbolizes love but stands the test of time.

Lab-Created Diamonds: A Dive into the Fascinating World of Man-Made Gems

In this insightful podcast excerpt, Kimberley, a seasoned jeweler, shares her experiences and evolving perspectives on lab-created diamonds. Let’s explore the key points that unravel the allure and practicality of these gems.

The Emergence of Lab-Created Diamonds

Shifting Perspectives:

  1. Initial Reservations: Kimberley admits to initial skepticism and a degree of snobbery towards lab-created diamonds, emphasizing her deep appreciation for Canadian diamonds.
  2. Changing Landscape: Over time, she acknowledges the shift in perception, especially considering the rising costs of various commodities, including gold and groceries.

The Intricacies of Lab-Creation

Unveiling the Process:

  1. Complex Laboratory Setting: Contrary to a perceived ‘tiny lab in someone’s basement,’ Kimberley paints a picture of massive laboratory settings requiring vast acres. The process involves replicating the immense pressure found in the Earth to create diamonds.
  2. Scientific Precision: Lab-created diamonds aren’t a result of a simple concoction. The intricate process involves meticulous steps, including the growth of diamonds.

The Appeal of Lab-Created Diamonds

Affordability and Accessibility:

  1. Cost Considerations: Kimberley highlights the affordability factor, particularly in comparison to natural diamonds. She cites an example of a lab-created tennis bracelet being significantly more budget-friendly.
  2. Diverse Offerings: Lab-created diamonds enable the creation of beautiful jewelry pieces, such as tennis bracelets, at a fraction of the cost, expanding options for consumers.

A Glimpse into Diamond Pricing

Real vs. Lab-Created Diamond Costs:

  1. Real Diamond Cost: While not providing specific figures, Kimberley mentions the ballpark cost of a real 1-carat diamond, emphasizing it to be over $10,000 for a good quality one.
  2. Lab-Created Diamond Cost: In contrast, she notes that a lab-created 1-carat diamond could be around $4,000 to $5,000, offering a significantly more affordable alternative.

Understanding the Four Cs in Lab-Created Diamonds

Quality Factors in Lab-Grown Gems:

  1. Clarity Matters: The same considerations of cut, color, clarity, and carat (the four Cs) apply to lab-created diamonds. Clarity grading is essential, with imperfections like carbon bubbles being assessed.
  2. Grading Standards: Lab-created diamonds undergo rigorous grading, ensuring consumers have clear information about the gem’s quality.

Conclusion: Crafting Memorable Moments with Jewelry

Selecting fine jewelry involves a delicate dance between budget, style, and sentiment. Kimberley’s approach, rooted in understanding the customer’s needs and providing a diverse range of options, ensures that the chosen piece becomes not just an accessory but a cherished memory. Whether it’s a timeless classic or a trendy piece, the art of choosing fine jewelry lies in the thoughtful consideration of the recipient’s unique taste and the sentiment behind the gift.

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