Real Marriage Advice for Brides to Be: Quotes from the Heart

If you’re searching for the best “brides to be quotes” to share at a bridal shower, write in a card, or reflect on before the big day, you’re going to love this heartfelt collection of marriage advice from women who’ve lived it.

Just this morning, a friend messaged me from Germany, still reeling with the excitement of her son’s storybook wedding ceremony that happened yesterday. Her message reminded me of the joy and new beginnings of weddings—watching loved ones step into a brand new chapter.

It also reminded me of a conversation I had with my Instagram community once. I asked:
“What advice would you give to a new bride?”
The responses just blew me away, and I knew right away that they needed to be passed on for others to hear, too!

Whether you’re attending a bridal shower, helping plan one, or just want to tuck away some timeless wisdom, this list of marriage advice quotes is for you. These quotes are from real women who’ve walked the walk for many years—and have plenty of common sense wisdom to share.

Real Marriage Advice for the Bride to Be (or us “old brides”, too!)

(Shared by women in my Instagram community– Come join us if you haven’t already!)

• Never stop dating each other.
• Kisses and slow dances go a long way.
• Just be kind to each other. This is the person you vowed to love forever, so treat them with kindness, respect, and lots of love—even on the frustrating days!
• Be careful with your words.
• Read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman.
• Try putting yourself in your spouse’s shoes—you’ll see things differently.
• Pick your battles. Not everything has to be a fight.
• Never assume anything.
• Don’t try to change the person you married.
• Remember, you’re on the same team.
• Learn your spouse’s love language—and fill their cup. Learn to say “I’m sorry.”
• Remember you’re important, too. Keep hobbies and take time for yourself.
• Marriage counseling can be humbling, but can bring you closer to each other and to God. (But, choose a counsellor wisely…)
• Love your spouse for who they are now.
• Be kind and respectful, especially in disagreement or when around others.
• Never go to bed angry… he’ll fall asleep and you’ll be up all night stewing.
• Don’t embarrass your spouse in public. Speak kindly about them and to them.
• Work out your problems together.
• Marriage is like fine wine—it gets better with time.
• Laugh often. Laugh together. Laugh at yourself.
• Don’t expect your spouse to meet all your needs. Maintain your own friendships, hobbies, and growth.
• Be your own person and give your spouse room to be theirs.
• Don’t major on minors. You both have flaws—be each other’s cheerleader.
• Treat your spouse as you would a guest in your home… or maybe even better.
• Put God and your beliefs at the center of your marriage.

Ways to Use These Tips at a Bridal Shower

These little nuggets of wisdom are perfect for bridal showers! Here are a few meaningful ideas:

• Create a “Marriage Advice Jar”: Print these out on little slips of paper and let guests draw one to read aloud.
• Decorate with Advice Cards: Display the quotes around the room or as part of a centerpiece.
• Make a Keepsake Book: Guests can write out their own words of wisdom on printable sheets (see below), and you can compile them into a book.
• Bridal Shower Devotional Activity: Use these tips alongside my Bridal Shower Devotional with Printable Props
• Use My Printable Set: I’ve put together a Bridal Shower Printable Set with ready-to-go advice sheets, to make shower planning simple and meaningful. Just fill out the form below to have it sent right to your inbox!

More Bridal Shower Ideas

I started putting together Bridal Shower Ideas years ago on Pinterest. You can find everything from decoration ideas, shower themes, snack ideas, games and more on my Bridal Shower Ideas Board.

And, don’t forget to pin this idea to remember it for later!